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Invite me Today to Un-invite me Tomorrow

 You will invite me today and uninvite me tomorrow

Love me and hate me 

Date me and break up with me 

Find me, lose me 

Hold me, let me go 

You will save me and sell me out 

Pay me and defraud me 


You will visit me 

Leave me lonely 

Intimate with me 

Call it love for me

Then go mute on me 

Try to use me 

Empty me for all I have 


You’ll be charming with me 

Smile and joke with me 

Call me sweet nothing 

Then go quite on me 

Abandon me

Make me an enemy 


You will make food for me 

Lay a table before me 

Laugh out loud and send emojis to me 

Braai with me

Wish me a happy whatever 

Then go far from me 

Bully me 

Tell on me 

Make up stories 

Play nasty with me 


You will hold me 

Get comfy 

Play music 

Until you don’t get what you want 

Then you will let me go 

Fight with me 

Make up things about me 

Be my sunshine 

And call rain on me 


Why won’t you create space for us 

Live without these ups and downs 

Keep your excitement 

Keep your madness 


Why don’t we 

Live like adults 

Play like kids 

Have mercy on me 


Why don’t we play it fair 

Fight fire with fire 

I’m the good guy 


Why don’t we meet each other halfway 

Say what we have to say 

Let bygones be on bygons way 


Why don’t we have fun the old school way 

Put our phones down and fight the right way 


Why don’t we say the right things 

Greet each other like mature siblings 


Why don’t we pray the right prayer 

Grin and bear it like we’ve always done player 

Cause we don’t have all our lives to regret 

Your one moment of silly regret 


Why don’t we leave it all behind 

Start from scratch 

Cause you done messed up enough 

Used up all your mercy cards 

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