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You will be special to someone

 

 

You will be special to someone

But you will not be special to me

 

They will let you down 

And you will let them down

That’s what you call the ebb and flow

But that will not be me 

 

You will find your person 

You always do 

And they will find you 

They always do

 

There is someone who will need you desperately 

They will not be able to do anything without you 

They will be your ride or die 

But that won’t be me 

 

You will depend on someone 

You won’t be able to live without them 

But that will not be me 

 

You will find someone who will respect you and you will respect them 
You will respect and disrespect each other 
But that will not be me 
 
You will find someone to miss 
They will miss you too 
You will miss and unmiss each other
But that will not be me 
 
You will shower each other with romance
Then fall into sadness when you reject each other 
They will make you feel like royalty
They will make you feel like trash 
But all that won’t have anything to do with me

 

Use each other 

Treating ourself to temptations after a long-week

Explore fantasies 

Lace it with illusions

Assumptions that it’s something ideal 

Morally aligned with corrupt conventions

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