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Love

 Love is not a recipe

Love is not a decision 

It has nothing to do with effort 

love is not respect or forgiveness 

It not bound by time 

it’s not stubborn 

it’s not ownership, it’s not contractual,  it has no authority 


You don’t fight for love 

Love knows no aggression


Love knows no jealousy 

No doubt 

No certainty 


No regret 

No fear 


Love is not dependent 

It’s not pathetic 


It’s not ambition 

It’s not hope 

It’s not known 

You can’t describe it with words


It’s not academic 

It’s not limited by words 


It’s not analysis 

It’s not to be understood 


It’s not a thesis 


You don’t have to earn it 

It can’t be bought 


Love is not a conclusion


Love is when we have a relationship without the past 

When we see each other with innocence 

Love is relationship 



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